autostartalse problem in embedded FLV

I have this FLV i'm trying to prevent from auto-playing on my
website.. inserted the code provided through the online free FLV
Player (http://flvplayer.com/free-flv-player) and tried to input
"autostartalse" commands but i don't know where to put it
correctly.. =x

Here's my code (without any edited changes):

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000"
codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/
swflash.cab#version,0,0,0" width="640" height="375" id="FlvPlayer"
align="middle">
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
<param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" />
<param name="movie" value="http://flvplayer.com/free-flv-player/
FlvPlayer.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="000000" />
<param name="FlashVars" value="flvpFolderLocation=http://
flvplayer.com/
free-flv-player/flvplayer/&flvpVideoSurce=http://www.fileden.com/
files/2008/4/1/1847518/TSB-
Reyza.flv&flvpWidth40&flvpHeight75&flvpInitVolume0&flvpTurnOnCorners=true&flvpBgColor=000000"
<embed src="http://flvplayer.com/free-flv-player/FlvPlayer.swf"
flashvars="flvpFolderLocation=http://flvplayer.com/free-flv-player/
flvplayer/&flvpVideoSource=http://www.fileden.com/files/
2008/4/1/1847518/TSB-
Reyza.flv&flvpWidth40&flvpHeight75&flvpInitVolume0&flvpTurnOnCorners=true&flvpBgColor=000000
quality="high" bgcolor="000000" width="640" height="375"
name="FlvPlayer" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="sameDomain"
allowFullScreen="true" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"
pluginspage="http://www.adobe.com/go/getflashplayer" />
</object>

And here's the webpage:
http://niwdehot.webs.com/filmanimation.htm

Would be very grateful for help on where to place the autostartalse
commands! Thank you!

Regards,
Edwin